Dealing with premature ejaculation

The issue of ejaculation is a huge source of concern for most men, because a man’s ability to delay his ejaculation is his source of sexual pride- besides the size of his manhood and his ability to bring a woman to climax. And it doesn’t end there. Women rate a man’s level of sexual usefulness based on his ability to prolong his erection, amongst other skills.


To the poster who sent the mail, you should understand that your husband is not doing this on purpose or being selfish. In fact, no research tells why some men ejaculate more rapidly than others just like there is no conclusive research findings why some women achieve orgasm than others.
 

Most rapid ejaculators are a bit more anxious (nervous) than average and tend to become overtly excited. What you can do is to help him relax and loosen up. Discourage a rush to intercourse and encourage him to explore your body in many ways. If needed and desired, encourage him to orally stimulate you to orgasm. Some pressure will be taken off your husband if you have had orgasm before the intercourse begins. You can also explore any of the following options listed below:


Sex Positions: There are several sex positions that prevent deep penetration and aid longer erections. You can learn these from the appropriate books.


Cock Rings: A cock ring is a sex toy that prevents the penis from going limp after ejaculation. It is cheap, easy to use and very effective.



Desensitizing Creams and Sprays: These are very common and work by  numbing and desensitizing the manhood, thereby delaying ejaculation.


Prolonging ejaculation is okay, but don’t obsess about it. When round one ends, there is always round two which usually lasts longer. I do hope this helps.